Wedding etiquette: Do’s and don'ts for the modern couple
Modern love calls for a fresh perspective on wedding etiquette, and at the heart of this evolution lies the opportunity for couples to shape their nuptials with a blend of tradition and contemporary flair. At Springfield House, we wholeheartedly embrace the spirit of creating a wedding that is reflective of you and your partner and using our estate to be your blank canvas for magic.
So what are the essential dos and don'ts for the modern couple? We have put together some guidance when navigating the intricate dance between tradition and personal style.
Do’s:
- Personalised Invitations
Break away from the formal, one-size-fits-all wedding invitations. Opt for personalised invites that reflect your personality as a couple. Whether it's a quirky illustration, a shared hobby, or a favourite quote, let your invitations set the tone for the unique celebration that lies ahead.
- Mix-and-Match Bridal Parties
Gone are the days of strictly adhering to gender norms in your bridal party. Mix and match your bridesmaids and groomsmen based on your closest friends and family. This approach not only breaks down traditional barriers but also ensures that your bridal party is a true reflection of your relationships and having those closest to you stand by your side.
- Interactive Ceremonies
Involve your guests in the ceremony with interactive elements. Instead of a one-sided affair, consider including readings, vows, or rituals that engage your loved ones. This creates a more intimate and memorable experience for everyone involved.
Don'ts
- Cookie-Cutter Decor
Steer clear of generic wedding decor. Inject your personality into the venue by incorporating unique elements that reflect your interests, hobbies, or shared experiences. Springfield House's flexible event spaces provide a blank canvas for you to bring your creative vision to life.
- Forced Traditions
If certain traditions don't resonate with you, don't feel obligated to include them. Whether it's the bouquet toss, garter belt ritual, or other customary practices, choose what feels meaningful to you as a couple. Springfield House offers a flexible space that can be customised to align with your vision.
- Excessive Social Media Sharing
Don't let the excitement of the day overshadow the intimacy. While sharing moments on social media is natural, avoid excessive posting that could detract from the personal and private aspects of your celebration.
Conclusion
As you embark on the exhilarating journey of planning your modern wedding, remember that etiquette is not about rigid rules but about creating an opportunity to celebrate your love story authentically. Embrace the unique dynamics of your relationship, and let your wedding reflect the beauty of your love story. By navigating the do’s and don'ts with grace and intention, you can craft a celebration that not only honours tradition but also showcases the essence of your modern love. Cheers to the beginning of your happily ever after!
Your wedding day is an opportunity to celebrate your love story authentically. By breaking traditional rules and making your own, you'll create an unforgettable experience that reflects your unique bond. Embrace the dos and don'ts that resonate with you, and let Springfield House be the canvas for your modern love story.
